{"id":10351,"date":"2025-12-03T07:15:51","date_gmt":"2025-12-03T12:15:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tclleader.com\/?p=10351"},"modified":"2025-12-03T11:20:22","modified_gmt":"2025-12-03T16:20:22","slug":"part-4-relationship-respect-dealings-drama-dialogue","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tclleader.com\/?p=10351","title":{"rendered":"PART 4 RELATIONSHIP RESPECT: DEALINGS, DRAMA &#038; DIALOGUE"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 data-start=\"458\" data-end=\"510\"><\/h1>\n<h1 data-start=\"458\" data-end=\"510\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-5634 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.taveaucreativeleadership.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screen-Shot-2025-12-02-at-6.29.36-PM-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"352\" height=\"346\" \/><\/h1>\n<h1 data-start=\"458\" data-end=\"510\"><\/h1>\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\" data-start=\"458\" data-end=\"510\"><strong data-start=\"460\" data-end=\"510\">PART 4 ABOUT RELATIONSHIP RESPECT\u00a0<\/strong><\/h1>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\" data-start=\"533\" data-end=\"619\"><em data-start=\"537\" data-end=\"619\">Isaiah 58:9, Emotional Drama, Manipulation, Wear-and-Tear, and James 3:17 Wisdom<\/em><\/h3>\n<h1 style=\"text-align: center;\" data-start=\"458\" data-end=\"510\"><span style=\"font-size: 31px;\"><strong data-start=\"460\" data-end=\"510\"><span style=\"font-size: 21px;\">Dealings,Drama &amp; Dialogue (Part 2)<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">(C)2025 Taveau D&#8217;Arcy All copyrights reserved under international copyright law<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5649\" src=\"https:\/\/www.taveaucreativeleadership.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screen-Shot-2025-12-02-at-6.59.33-PM-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"266\" height=\"263\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"626\" data-end=\"677\"><span style=\"font-size: 22px;\"><strong data-start=\"629\" data-end=\"677\">Relational Breakdown in Light of Isaiah 58:9<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"679\" data-end=\"759\">Isaiah 58:9 names three relational destroyers God commands His people to remove:<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"761\" data-end=\"843\"><strong data-start=\"761\" data-end=\"835\">\u201c\u2026the yoke,<br data-start=\"774\" data-end=\"777\" \/>the putting forth of the finger,<br data-start=\"809\" data-end=\"812\" \/>and speaking vanity.\u201d<\/strong> <em data-start=\"836\" data-end=\"843\">(KJV)<\/em><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"845\" data-end=\"947\">These reveal patterns still common today in families, ministries, workplaces, and leadership cultures:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"949\" data-end=\"1276\">\n<li data-start=\"949\" data-end=\"976\">\n<p data-start=\"951\" data-end=\"976\">emotional wear-and-tear<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"977\" data-end=\"1016\">\n<p data-start=\"979\" data-end=\"1016\">pressure, guilt, or burden-shifting<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1017\" data-end=\"1052\">\n<p data-start=\"1019\" data-end=\"1052\">finger-pointing or subtle blame<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1053\" data-end=\"1078\">\n<p data-start=\"1055\" data-end=\"1078\">dramatic exaggeration<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1079\" data-end=\"1108\">\n<p data-start=\"1081\" data-end=\"1108\">unclear or evasive speech<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1109\" data-end=\"1139\">\n<p data-start=\"1111\" data-end=\"1139\">passive-aggressive remarks<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1140\" data-end=\"1165\">\n<p data-start=\"1142\" data-end=\"1165\">mood-driven reactions<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1166\" data-end=\"1222\">\n<p data-start=\"1168\" data-end=\"1222\">gossip or speculation instead of direct conversation<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1223\" data-end=\"1276\">\n<p data-start=\"1225\" data-end=\"1276\">conversations <em data-start=\"1239\" data-end=\"1246\">about<\/em> people instead of <em data-start=\"1265\" data-end=\"1269\">to<\/em> them<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"1278\" data-end=\"1325\">None of these reflect Christlike communication<\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"1332\" data-end=\"1371\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"><strong data-start=\"1335\" data-end=\"1371\">Defining Key Relational Patterns<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<h3 data-start=\"1373\" data-end=\"1398\"><strong data-start=\"1377\" data-end=\"1396\">Emotional Drama<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p data-start=\"1399\" data-end=\"1531\">Not shouting \u2014 but unnecessary emotional escalation that creates tension or uncertainty, forcing others to \u201ctiptoe\u201d around feelings.<\/p>\n<h3 data-start=\"1533\" data-end=\"1555\"><strong data-start=\"1537\" data-end=\"1553\">Manipulation<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p data-start=\"1556\" data-end=\"1678\">Using emotion, silence, avoidance, or selective communication to influence or control outcomes without clarity or consent.<\/p>\n<h3 data-start=\"1680\" data-end=\"1703\"><strong data-start=\"1684\" data-end=\"1701\">Wear-and-Tear<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p data-start=\"1704\" data-end=\"1834\">The slow erosion of trust caused by inconsistent communication, shifting expectations, unclear boundaries, or unpredictable moods.<\/p>\n<h3 data-start=\"1836\" data-end=\"1867\"><strong data-start=\"1840\" data-end=\"1865\">Hide-and-Seek Control<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p data-start=\"1868\" data-end=\"1905\">Relational avoidance used as control:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"1907\" data-end=\"2045\">\n<li data-start=\"1907\" data-end=\"1931\">\n<p data-start=\"1909\" data-end=\"1931\">withdrawing suddenly<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1932\" data-end=\"1949\">\n<p data-start=\"1934\" data-end=\"1949\">not answering<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1950\" data-end=\"1967\">\n<p data-start=\"1952\" data-end=\"1967\">cold distance<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1968\" data-end=\"1988\">\n<p data-start=\"1970\" data-end=\"1988\">silent treatment<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"1989\" data-end=\"2015\">\n<p data-start=\"1991\" data-end=\"2015\">disappearing to punish<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2016\" data-end=\"2045\">\n<p data-start=\"2018\" data-end=\"2045\">withholding communication<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"2047\" data-end=\"2131\">Scripture calls this:<br data-start=\"2068\" data-end=\"2071\" \/><strong data-start=\"2071\" data-end=\"2115\">\u201cHide not thyself from thine own flesh.\u201d<\/strong> <em data-start=\"2116\" data-end=\"2131\">(Isaiah 58:7)<\/em><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2047\" data-end=\"2131\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5651\" src=\"https:\/\/www.taveaucreativeleadership.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screen-Shot-2025-12-02-at-7.37.54-PM.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"347\" height=\"330\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"2138\" data-end=\"2183\"><strong data-start=\"2141\" data-end=\"2183\">Why This Contradicts James 3:17 Wisdom<\/strong><\/h2>\n<h3 data-start=\"2185\" data-end=\"2211\"><strong data-start=\"2189\" data-end=\"2209\">James 3:17 (KJV)<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p data-start=\"2212\" data-end=\"2398\">\u201cBut the wisdom that is from above is first pure,<br data-start=\"2261\" data-end=\"2264\" \/>then peaceable, gentle, and <strong data-start=\"2292\" data-end=\"2316\">easy to be intreated<\/strong>,<br data-start=\"2317\" data-end=\"2320\" \/>full of mercy and good fruits,<br data-start=\"2350\" data-end=\"2353\" \/>without partiality,<br data-start=\"2372\" data-end=\"2375\" \/>and without hypocrisy.\u201d<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2400\" data-end=\"2433\"><strong data-start=\"2400\" data-end=\"2426\">\u201cEasy to be intreated\u201d<\/strong> means:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"2435\" data-end=\"2604\">\n<li data-start=\"2435\" data-end=\"2451\">\n<p data-start=\"2437\" data-end=\"2451\">approachable<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2452\" data-end=\"2471\">\n<p data-start=\"2454\" data-end=\"2471\">safe to talk to<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2472\" data-end=\"2482\">\n<p data-start=\"2474\" data-end=\"2482\">humble<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2483\" data-end=\"2509\">\n<p data-start=\"2485\" data-end=\"2509\">emotionally consistent<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2510\" data-end=\"2527\">\n<p data-start=\"2512\" data-end=\"2527\">not defensive<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2528\" data-end=\"2548\">\n<p data-start=\"2530\" data-end=\"2548\">not intimidating<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2549\" data-end=\"2565\">\n<p data-start=\"2551\" data-end=\"2565\">not dramatic<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2566\" data-end=\"2583\">\n<p data-start=\"2568\" data-end=\"2583\">not confusing<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2584\" data-end=\"2604\">\n<p data-start=\"2586\" data-end=\"2604\">not manipulative<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"2606\" data-end=\"2687\"><strong data-start=\"2606\" data-end=\"2687\">If a person is not approachable,<br data-start=\"2640\" data-end=\"2643\" \/>they are not walking in James 3:17 wisdom.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2689\" data-end=\"2705\">This applies to:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"2707\" data-end=\"2818\">\n<li data-start=\"2707\" data-end=\"2725\">\n<p data-start=\"2709\" data-end=\"2725\">church leaders<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2726\" data-end=\"2744\">\n<p data-start=\"2728\" data-end=\"2744\">family leaders<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2745\" data-end=\"2761\">\n<p data-start=\"2747\" data-end=\"2761\">team leaders<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2762\" data-end=\"2777\">\n<p data-start=\"2764\" data-end=\"2777\">friendships<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2778\" data-end=\"2791\">\n<p data-start=\"2780\" data-end=\"2791\">marriages<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2792\" data-end=\"2818\">\n<p data-start=\"2794\" data-end=\"2818\">ministry relationships<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"2820\" data-end=\"2873\">This is what Scripture calls <strong data-start=\"2849\" data-end=\"2872\">Christlike maturity<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"2820\" data-end=\"2873\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-5638\" src=\"https:\/\/www.taveaucreativeleadership.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/12\/Screen-Shot-2025-12-02-at-7.02.57-PM.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"381\" height=\"363\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 data-start=\"2880\" data-end=\"2940\"><strong data-start=\"2883\" data-end=\"2940\">How the Christian Is Supposed to Model Christ in This<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"2942\" data-end=\"2956\">Jesus modeled:<\/p>\n<ul data-start=\"2958\" data-end=\"3461\">\n<li data-start=\"2958\" data-end=\"2997\">\n<p data-start=\"2960\" data-end=\"2997\"><strong data-start=\"2960\" data-end=\"2979\">approachability<\/strong> (Matthew 11:28)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"2998\" data-end=\"3042\">\n<p data-start=\"3000\" data-end=\"3042\"><strong data-start=\"3000\" data-end=\"3024\">direct communication<\/strong> (Matthew 18:15)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3043\" data-end=\"3079\">\n<p data-start=\"3045\" data-end=\"3079\"><strong data-start=\"3045\" data-end=\"3065\">truth with grace<\/strong> (John 1:14)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3080\" data-end=\"3128\">\n<p data-start=\"3082\" data-end=\"3128\"><strong data-start=\"3082\" data-end=\"3102\">relational light<\/strong> (John 3:21; 1 John 1:7)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3129\" data-end=\"3163\">\n<p data-start=\"3131\" data-end=\"3163\"><strong data-start=\"3131\" data-end=\"3145\">gentleness<\/strong> (Matthew 12:20)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3164\" data-end=\"3204\">\n<p data-start=\"3166\" data-end=\"3204\"><strong data-start=\"3166\" data-end=\"3186\">meek restoration<\/strong> (Galatians 6:1)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3205\" data-end=\"3245\">\n<p data-start=\"3207\" data-end=\"3245\"><strong data-start=\"3207\" data-end=\"3228\">non-defensiveness<\/strong> (1 Peter 2:23)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3246\" data-end=\"3292\">\n<p data-start=\"3248\" data-end=\"3292\"><strong data-start=\"3248\" data-end=\"3266\">reconciliation<\/strong> (2 Corinthians 5:18\u201320)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3293\" data-end=\"3333\">\n<p data-start=\"3295\" data-end=\"3333\"><strong data-start=\"3295\" data-end=\"3318\">courage to confront<\/strong> (Mark 10:21)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3334\" data-end=\"3372\">\n<p data-start=\"3336\" data-end=\"3372\"><strong data-start=\"3336\" data-end=\"3357\">no hidden agendas<\/strong> (John 18:20)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3373\" data-end=\"3426\">\n<p data-start=\"3375\" data-end=\"3426\"><strong data-start=\"3375\" data-end=\"3409\">consistency and predictability<\/strong> (Hebrews 13:8)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<li data-start=\"3427\" data-end=\"3461\">\n<p data-start=\"3429\" data-end=\"3461\"><strong data-start=\"3429\" data-end=\"3441\">humility<\/strong> (Philippians 2:5\u20138)<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p data-start=\"3463\" data-end=\"3492\">A Christian models Christ by:<\/p>\n<h3 data-start=\"3494\" data-end=\"3538\">\u2714<span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"> choosing conversation over avoidance<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 data-start=\"3539\" data-end=\"3576\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\">\u2714 choosing clarity over mystery<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 data-start=\"3577\" data-end=\"3610\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\">\u2714 choosing peace over drama<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 data-start=\"3611\" data-end=\"3652\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\">\u2714 choosing truth over triangulation<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 data-start=\"3653\" data-end=\"3697\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\">\u2714 choosing humility over defensiveness<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 data-start=\"3698\" data-end=\"3736\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\">\u2714 choosing light over hiddenness<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 data-start=\"3737\" data-end=\"3791\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\">\u2714 choosing directness over talking around others<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 data-start=\"3792\" data-end=\"3832\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\">\u2714 choosing gentleness over control<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3 data-start=\"3833\" data-end=\"3880\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\">\u2714 choosing reconciliation over resentment<\/span><\/h3>\n<p data-start=\"3882\" data-end=\"3980\"><strong data-start=\"3882\" data-end=\"3902\">Relation Respect<\/strong> is nothing more and nothing less than imitating Christ\u2019s communication style.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3982\" data-end=\"4039\">This is the true \u201cRelationship Fast\u201d Isaiah 58 describes.<\/p>\n<p data-start=\"3982\" data-end=\"4039\">(C) 2025 Taveau Creative Leadership all copyrights reserved in conjunction with AI<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>PART 4 ABOUT RELATIONSHIP RESPECT\u00a0 Isaiah 58:9, Emotional Drama, Manipulation, Wear-and-Tear, and James 3:17 Wisdom Dealings,Drama &amp; Dialogue (Part 2) (C)2025 Taveau D&#8217;Arcy All copyrights reserved under international copyright law &nbsp; Relational Breakdown in Light of Isaiah 58:9 Isaiah 58:9 names three relational destroyers God commands His people to remove: \u201c\u2026the yoke,the putting 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