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JESUS, APOSTLE PAUL AND NON LP BIG BOSS<\/span><\/p>\n

MARRIAGE VOWS<\/span><\/p>\n

ST PAUL Ephesians 5:21 KJV – “<\/span><\/p>\n

Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.<\/span><\/p>\n

ST PAUL Ephesians 5:22 KJV – <\/span><\/p>\n

“Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord<\/span><\/p>\n

FOR A New Non LP Higher Position<\/span><\/p>\n

From Senior Pastor Taveau D’Arcy (C)2023. All copyrights are reserved under international copyright laws.<\/span><\/p>\n

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These are two “new” marriage vows t<\/strong>o complement the former old-timey law, and due to violence, long-standing repetitive emotional immaturity, rampant accusation, demeaning abuse, good old boy primitive skills established king patriarchy.<\/span><\/p>\n

Reasons: Today, due to more toxic a<\/strong>nd dangerous personal behavior and the increase in murder-suicides and child abuse, which appear every day in the news, and often as it’s demonic murder, enslavement, and critical accusation, marital rape, toxic subhuman 2 Timothy 3:1-6, chattel owning, big bias, we correct the old with this new twist.<\/span><\/p>\n

CHRIST AND APOSTLE PAUL<\/span><\/p>\n

Whereas Christ respected<\/strong> and valued all humans “equally,” including men and women, plus Christ “fulfilled every jot and title of the law,” and he was not “back under” the Old Testament Levitical law. He fulfilled it.<\/span><\/p>\n

However, it was the Torah-keeping<\/strong> biased religious Levitical patriarch temple Pharisees who looked down on women and regarded them as second-rate, property, and not as worthy as men (this still goes on today).<\/span><\/p>\n

However, Christ respected<\/strong> and even befriended women. He saw them as “people” whom God loved.<\/span><\/p>\n

Apostle Paul wrote to both men an<\/strong>d women in marriage to have Ephesians 5:21, not just “woman submit” in chapter 5:22.<\/span><\/p>\n

This is (NO BIG BOSS) EPHESIANS 5:21<\/strong> Sir Apostle Paul, for any of your records:<\/span><\/p>\n

“Mutual submission in the fear of the Lord” (Pre Law,Back in the Genesis Garden, prior “sin” meaning the divine portrait of marriage “non controlling \/mutually respecting, equal give and take, EMOTIONAL MATURE Fellowship, Partnership, Colaborers and Romance.\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

FYI God formed First Human ADAM prior Eve a<\/strong>nd gave a straightforward command “Do not each of THAT ONE TREE” Meaning, this was before Eve was formed from First Man’s DNA(meaning not LESS THAN but fully equally, different strengths and weaknesses and in Chain of Command MUTUALLY RESPECTFUL ORDER with Adam being the HOH (Head of Home) Head of Governmental Planet Earth pure Authority and Eve his wife, his Governors Beloved EORR mature, mantled peaceful, pure and harmonious, always happy,\u00a0 colaborer<\/span>.<\/p>\n

YET that was prior to the Fall of Humankind, <\/strong>the descending “sin” condition and the glory of the Lord departing His Planet which affected all RELATIONSHIPS and all AUTHORITY and the indented as “remaining organic’ entire world and planets beyond.<\/span><\/p>\n

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It was in the Eden Garden Big Test within Genesis 3 wh<\/strong>en ACCUSATION, DECEPTION and POWER SIN came in and satan began to warp pure leader authority(later in depth about THE FALL and CHAIN OF COMMAND dur to the rise in demonic and later which caused\u00a0 THE LORD to command the TEN COMMANDMENTS and the LEVITICAL LAW..<\/span><\/p>\n

BUT according to the New Testament, JESUS CH<\/strong>RIST fulfilled the Law and gave back Holy Spirit “self-governing” through the “authority of the believer, the Bible and most notably the BOOK OF ACTS FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT (non-mean) Galatians 5:22-23 “The fruit of the spirit are love, joy, peace, patience, goodness, meekness and SELF GOVERNMENT(temperance, self-control)”<\/span><\/p>\n

Apostle Paul, Bible chain of command,<\/strong> head of home, headship but not misogynist Big Boss, but a team, mature partnership, which is “mutually” bearing the fruits of an ongoing lifestyle, cooperating kind humility, giving, other deferring, calm, unselfish, forbearing, enduring, patient, emotionally healthy, and emotionally mature.<\/span><\/p>\n

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THESE ARE THE NEW VERSIONS (OPTIONS) FOR WEDDING VOWS<\/span><\/p>\n

“TO LOVE HONOR AND RESPECT”<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“(This would include\u00a0 pre-marriage,<\/strong> after marriage counsel,\u00a0 \u00a0 in done with each spouse in full\u00a0 Ephesians 5:21 + 5:22)<\/span><\/p>\n

Ephesians 5:21 KJV – “Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ephesians 5:22 KJV – “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord<\/span><\/p>\n

MASTER TEACHER MAIN POINT:<\/strong> <\/span><\/p>\n

1.WHEN IF\u00a0 each SPOUSE is prior trained to RESPECT<\/strong> and VALUE under all situations, heaven and hell, ministry, warfare, children, lack, failure, loss, and more than they will be “PRESSURE SAFE GUARDED which will ‘make abuse less likely, unless they have authority unforgiveness or just do not to try or have deliverance needs via prayer,healing, therapy , medication<\/span> .<\/p>\n

2<\/span>. IF BOTH ARE MUTUALLY RESPECTING<\/span>, meaning “humble, other preferring, through children, pressure and stress, Real Life) then it will a PARTNERSHIP and TEAM..CO LABORERS, not slave and masters.. <\/span><\/p>\n

3.AND BIG FACTOR IN EPHESIANS 5:21 MEANS “THE HOLY FEAR OF THE LOR<\/strong>D”(which is the “Begining of wisdom”Proverbs 9:10)\u00a0 and “really knowing how to to the Lord for themselves and also EACH PERSON wanting to be MATURE, TO FORGIVE no matter what …is a CHOICE..however\u00a0 will be no “SHOCK” to any spouse if they get quality, thorough \u00a0prior equipping.<\/span><\/p>\n

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ASIDE .<\/span>.<\/span><\/span>MY OWN EQUALLY OPPORTUNITY REAL RESPECTFUL<\/span> (Not under the Torah law Ministry parents lived like THIS.SO did their Christian bible teacher parents on both sides. SO IT COMES NATURALLY FOR ME TO DO THIS..however, it takes TWO in Christian marriage to want to do that and to LEARN HOW TO ENDURE IN THAT and to want to PUT GOD and THE MATE FIRST .more than them SELVES.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Take it from Me, I never witnessed on figh<\/strong>t, disrespect or impolite behavior between my gifted Sr Pastor Happy Contented Parents or extended family who were all Noble Bereans like myself. (in hindsight I realized THESE HAD EACH MODELED EPHESIANS 5:21 (head of home, chain of command) minus the LETTER OF THE LAW.Happy, contented and ministry happy quality.<\/span><\/p>\n

AND I COUNT ALL OF THAT AS GOD’S GREAT UNDUE GRACE<\/strong> For I never deserved it or achieved, It was by Grace to have a backstory that can HOW I EXPECTED BOTH GREAT, GRAND AND DYSFUNCTIONAL and it helps note the difference when I travel, relate and choose a possible future MATE.<\/span><\/p>\n

AND FUTURE MARRIED..EPHESIANS 5:22 “submitted wives without being accused, Pharisee enslaved, owned or used…FOR what woman, who is valued,<\/strong> respected and CHERISHED by wise, humble, gifted, and strong Godly man will want to “NOT HONOR and RESPECT him\u00a0 for HE realizes HIS ROLE and HIS OWN CHRISTIAN ACCOUNTABILITY to go to the Lord and get the strength to RELATE.<\/span>
\nMORE LATER too long for here.<\/span><\/p>\n

BEING RESPECTED, VALUED, PUT AS HIS TOP PRIORITY after the Maker Lord HIMSELF all makes it rather\u00a0 EASIER for the woman to submit. For it is done easily, not out of SLAVE MANAGEMENT or critical Levitical Misogynist Legalis<\/span>m.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

“TILL DEATH DO US PART”<\/span><\/p>\n

WHEN IT’S A GRAY AREA\u00a0 ABOUT STAYING OR GETTING OUT TO SAFE YOUR LIFE..<\/strong>.THE COUNSELOR maybe GOOD or make YOU FEEL ACCUSED if they do not fully comprehend YOUR GENUINE ROUGH TURF: for many are in counseling who are asleep at the proverbial REAL WORLD Wheel ..and that includes THE CHURch..for they are mostly over busy and empathy fairly free.<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

SO EACH ADVISE GIVER, FRIEND, FAMILY, ..must be ASSESSED, EVALUATED AND THEN YOU MUST CHOOSE FROM THEM AND\/OR YOU..<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

THE CLUB OF THE WHITE COUNTRY LAW PATRIARCHS\/seeming many L MATRIARCHS.<\/strong>\u00a0the old Levitical Patriarchal Tradition (which strongly accuses, however subtly the women..as implies that the “female” is likely to get into mischief, act rebellious, and untrustworthy, and therefore be Big Boss fully\u00a0 monitored due to the Old Passed Mountain Wiliam White Country Back in the Woods Tradition” EVE WAS DECEIVED SO SHE IS GOING BE WILLFUL, SNEAKY, CONTROLLING, LOOK FOR ANY OPPORTUNITY AND BE A JEZEBEL (Like Daddy always said YOUR MAMA WAS)*<\/span>*<\/span><\/p>\n

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** AS Dr T realizes<\/span><\/strong> all of this can do future apologetics but later, as Deep Southwest mega and micro LP Big Boss caused me to study all of this to Inth (NON LP) Degree.<\/span>
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SO FOR NOW, we enlighten the Born Again Wise Gro<\/strong>up..to now train fully that\u00a0 to use vows which say “UNTIL DEATH DO YOU PART<\/span>” may now also mean ESCAPE FROM HELL ON EARTH VIOLENCE, ASSAULT, MURDER ATTEMPTS, DEMONIC EMOTIONAL RECURRING CRUELTY, VERBAL ABUSE OTHER where one can themselves wearing down, becoming depleted, totally isolated and near trying unalive OR literally PERISH (I have been there prior DFW and arrived in Dallas area resembling PSALM 143 PTSD\u00a0 (This is submitted as Selah not as autocratic dogma, for I understand the rough turf)<\/span><\/p>\n

AND IT MEANS: POSSIBLE, PROBABLE EVENTUAL “REAL “DEATH.<\/strong>..HERE ARE THE WORDS WHICH DEFINE “TO DEATH DO US PART<\/span><\/p>\n

MEANS: ” if they are killing you from the outside to the inside or..the inside to the outside, then you should DEPART “scram, leave, flee<\/strong> ” for YOUR LIFE, HEALTH, CHILDREN (meaning literally!!<\/span>)<\/p>\n

So, for the biased *<\/strong><\/span>*for you as a human person whom God values and suffered and loves also for sake of the children (their health, safety and to watch you are not anybody’s dysfunctional doormat)<\/span><\/p>\n


\nALSO for the evangelical LP legalists duly note<\/strong>: it means you may separate yet it does mean to divorce unless risks death or “living death” in the private dwelling and this may be for men and women (I’ve been through this when my health was in danger. And had father or brothers .(Dad had passed) and mother and sister had relocated and I was left alone in the state, with 2 children and office ministry, music business but wise strong counselors as they were all white under the old Torah law) <\/span><\/p>\n

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WE AGREE WITH “LOVE SUFFERS LONG AND IS KIN<\/strong>D”<\/strong> this love use wisdom and foresight, not fear or accusation. FOR REAL LIFE ABUSE is A FORCE and SPIRITUAl, NATURAL, MENTAL, EMOTIONAL, and PHYSICAL FINANCE mean warfare<\/span>.<\/span>..<\/div>\n
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AND IT MIGHT BE AT THE BREAKING POINT<\/strong>..its useless, they care, over accusing never relating to the point that you slowly begin to know the TOLL upon YOU and YOUR BODY, LIFE,and being THERE FOR YOUR CHILDREN, YOU CALL…so when it’s THAT HORRIFIC, then YOU must decide HOW MUCH TO CONTINUE TO ENDURE (FOR THE SAKE OF THE LORD) I remind NOBODY has to divorce if they want to FLEE FOR THEIR LIVES…so that is a QUALIFICATION but only YOU and GOD can discern THE LAST STRAW..<\/span><\/div>\n
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..to preserve LIFE and SAFETY.<\/span>.to spare YOURSELF, YOUR KIDS from spending many difficult YEARS in awful PTSD, always feeling oppressed, depressed, suffering TRIGGERS and many Flashbacks, due to demonic word curses,rage, emotional, physical repeated about…many might need to therapy and\/or medication<\/span>.<\/div>\n
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ALSO FOR SAKE OF THE CHILDREN<\/span>\u00a0 (for their future Safe Hero Role Model) “For you help THEM discern whom to date, to marry and their children following (their health, safety and to watch YOU are not anybody’s dysfunctional doormat)<\/span><\/div>\n
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ONCE MORE FOR BIBLE STICKLERS,<\/span> who Know the Law…FOR THESE LEGALISTS I\u00a0 DULY NOTE: It means YOU MAY SEPARATE yet it does MEAN to DIVORCE UNLESS RISKS DEATH OR “LIVING DEATH” IN THE PRIVATE DWELLING<\/span><\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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AND THIS MAY BE FOR MEN AND WOMEN<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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(I’ve been through this when my health was in danger. And had father or brothers .(Dad had passed) and mother and sister had relocated and I was left alone in the state, with 2 children and office ministry, music business BUT wise strong COUNSELORS as they were ALL WHITE UNDER THE OLD TORAH LAW)<\/span><\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n

REASONS WHY THIS\u00a0 TODAY…because this morning I saw a TikTok<\/strong> which prompted me to say this publicly and to put it out there. From now on (I am posting on blogs, ministry, and social media for all who may need this) life-saving, life-sparing, to know beforehand what you need to avoid. The TikTok this morning was a famous “fundamentalist” Bible preacher who was quoted reviling a female who has left her husband because he was a pedophile, and the heartless white LP-biased preacher, a By The Book Patriarch, singled this lady out in public and openly before the congregation to rebuke her as a “wicked woman” and his object lesson for targeted accusation, which is at the based of ALL LP… <\/span><\/p>\n

And it was very upsetting and<\/strong>\u00a0I felt for all accused women..for it delights, get’s it’s joy juice, it’s Good Ole Totalarian small evil-minded, and very powerful, angry Big Boss Religion jollies.. It seems that this “leader women are EVIL vile spirit is a bigoted white Levitical patriarch\u00a0 anti-woman biased biG “privilege.”\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

And I penned this.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

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FOR THE WOMAN, OCCASIONAL LEADER MAN, SINGLE, ABOUT TO BE MARRIED<\/span>:<\/span><\/p>\n

REASON: for in private married, real life,t<\/strong>he pressure is real and enormous for YOUR FUTURE even YOUR FAMILY\u00a0 and DESIRE TO DWELL IN PEACE and RESPECT is being challenged. “by the mean spirit of the accuser demonic dark devil himself’ YOU CAN LOVE AND FORGIVE THE PERSON yet this is often ABOUT LIFE and DEATH. ( and I speak from great experience)\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

PSALM 143: 3-4 (my aftermath in DFW) “For the enemy hath persecuted my soul; he hath smitten my life down to the ground; he hath made me to dwell in darkness, as those that have been long dead. 4 Therefore is my spirit overwhelmed within me; my heart within me is desolate.”<\/span><\/p>\n

ASIDE During those awful wearing MANY(15-20 years)wearing and completely dysfunctional behind the scenes Pre DFW years: I<\/strong> used to think as I was always wanting to negotiate, work on whatever, to be James 3:17 ..however, it takes 2 So God would remind me “I am not his mother and scripture came to my mind: “I am for peace, but they are for war” Also read PSALM 142 (the proud waters rolled over my soul (mind, will, emotions)\u00a0 and Psalm 123: 3-4)<\/span><\/p>\n

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  1. Psalm 143:8 KJV – “Cause me to hear thy lovingkindness in the morning; for in thee do I trust: cause me to know the way wherein I should walk; for I lift up my soul unto thee.”<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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    MAKING THE CHOICE TO FLEE OR REMAIN<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

    Psalm 143:8 KJV – “Cause me to hear thy lovingkindness in the morning; for in thee do I trust: cause me to know the way wherein I should walk; for I lift up my soul unto thee.”<\/span><\/p>\n

    Psalm 124:8 KJV – “Our help is in the name of the Lord, who made heaven and earth.”<\/span><\/p>\n


    \nMY WISDOM: “to Fear GOD\u00a0 ONLY not people.. INQUIRE OF HIM and ask anothers confirm (if you have someone ) but what HE says DO IT, even if YOU make a mistake YOU can learn from it and RETURN..SO..FIRST is\u00a0 please God…. not a man or a human, your friends or YOURSELF”<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n

    \u00a0Micah 7:5 KJV – “Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom.”<\/span><\/p>\n

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    Psalm 118:8: It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Psalm 118:9 “It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in princes’ (leaders)<\/span>
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    REASON: YOU NEED TO Listen to the Lord for yourself<\/strong> ...JUST IN CASE<\/strong>..<\/strong> for the counselors do not have travel with you <\/strong>\u00a0back to your home, where you are isolated, kept in private. These hard working, very\u00a0 wonderful people do not\u00a0 \u00a0live there with all of that like you do!! For the undecided (religious area (usually white) peer pressure because it is law and all patriarchy entrenched with all of the white LP ever anti female entitled ministry staff. So this is huge when one is living in the middle of all this..<\/span><\/p>\n

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    1. Psalm 143:8 KJV –<\/strong> “Cause me to hear thy lovingkindness in the morning; for in thee do I trust: cause me to know the way wherein I should walk; for I lift up my soul unto thee.”<\/span><\/li>\n
    2. Psalm 124:8 KJV<\/strong> – “Our help is in the name of the Lord, who made heaven and earth.”<\/span><\/li>\n
    3. Psalm 123:3-4 KJV –<\/strong> “Have mercy upon us, O Lord, have mercy upon us: for we are exceedingly filled with contempt. Our soul is exceedingly filled with the scorning of those that are at ease, and with the contempt of the proud.”<\/span><\/li>\n
    4. Micah 7:5 KJ<\/strong>V – “Trust ye not in a friend, put ye not confidence in a guide: keep the doors of thy mouth from her that lieth in thy bosom.”<\/span><\/li>\n
    5. Ephesians 5:21 KJV<\/strong> – “Submitting yourselves one to another in the fear of God.”<\/span><\/li>\n
    6. Ephesians 5:22 KJV<\/strong> – “Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.”<\/span>‘WESTERN EUROPEAN COLONIAL CAUCASIAN “BIG BOSS” IN CHRISTIAN LEADERSHIP COUNSELING, LAW, FAMILY, AREA…meaning BIG BOSS:<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      “The Song of the Big Boss is heard in the land”..<\/span><\/p>\n

      \u00a0 “WITCHY WOMAN”<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

      “IT’S ALWAYS THE WOMAN’S FAULT!” “THAT POOR VICTIM”(the SERIAL CHEATER AND REPEATED MAN\u00a0 ABUSER..FOR SHE IS A MEAN JEZEBEL”<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

      “SHE IS\u00a0 OUT FROM UNDER SPIRITUAL AUTHORITY!”<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

      “THAT(WAY) FAR AWAY\u00a0 NEW “HER” VISITOR IS ALL ALONE AND SURELY SHE IS MAN HUNGRY..OUT TO\u00a0 \u00a0TRAP AND BRING DOWN…ONE OF “OUR”GODLY LP MEN!<\/span><\/strong>“<\/span><\/p>\n


      \n“SHE IS A CONTROLLER AND\u00a0 UNSUBMITTED TO OUR VERSION OF LP (CONTROLLING WICCAN OCCULT( DIVINING)\u00a0 AUTHORITY’\u00a0 <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

      “WE HEARD SHE, YOU , THEY\u00a0 ARE A HARLOT”\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

      THE ABOVE\u00a0 BASED UPON USA WHITE SPIRIT FILLE<\/strong>D.(MOSTLY PC PROPHETIC, MOVE IN THE GIFTS CHARISMATIC) following..45 years of USA\u00a0 LP “WELP” STUDIES, but was not RAISED UNDER or BY\u00a0 or AROUND THESE\u00a0 so this discovery was discouraging and I encourage its DELIVERANCE!<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

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