CHRISTIAN MINISTRY COMPASSION FATIGUE …”RELATIONSHIP RESPECT THEOLOGY”

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MOTTO….CHURCH AND MINISTRY DEEP DECLINE USA

“Is there a last days falling away?.. A “running away from”/”driving  them away” by the white witchcraft,  false  teaching and ministry legalistic accusation?

OR is there now, also, a holy fear of the Lord,Godly remnant who, who know their Bible and submitting submitted to apostle Paul’s Last Days commands  who have “turned away?”(2 Tim 3:1-5, I Tim 6:5)

“RELATIONSHIP” FACTOR WELL KNOWN VERSES

Romans 12:15 “Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep.”

Isaiah 1:18 “Come now, and let us reason together, saith the Lord: though your sins be as scarlet, they shall be as white as snow; though they be red like crimson, they shall be as wool.”

Matthew 18:15-16: “Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.”

Galatians 6:1: “Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.”

John 11:35 “Jesus wept.”

Ephesians 4:32 (Community chapter) “And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”

In the fast-paced world of modern Christianity, ministers and church leaders often find themselves balancing the demands of ministry with the need for self-care and compassion. However, in their efforts to be efficient and effective, some may fall into practices that are not in line with the compassionate example set by Jesus Christ.

MAKING THIS A BOTTOM LINE

Many have been murmuring..and the majority…still are..

(by and large also ungrateful, yet See Psalm 132: 9, 16 about Office Leadership)

One such practice is the spread of gossip, speculation, and unfounded accusations within Christian communities. This can take the form of labeling individuals as witches, warlocks, hussies, Jezebels, or underminers without any evidence or relationship. It can also involve the use of pop psychology by young church staff to diagnose and judge others without ever speaking with them or understanding their real-life struggles.

These practices not only harm the individuals targeted but also go against the teachings of the Bible. Scriptures such as Matthew 18:15-16, which instructs believers to address issues privately before escalating them, and Galatians 6:1, which emphasizes restoring others gently, are often ignored in favor of quick judgments and accusations.

MY ABIDING “RELATIONSHIP RESPECT “THEOLOGY  TEACHING VERSES

Matthew 18:15-16: “Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.”

Galatians 6:1: “Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.”

The apostle Paul warned about such behavior in his letters to Timothy. In 2 Timothy 3:1-5, he described the last days as perilous times, characterized by people who are lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, without natural affection, trucebreakers, false accusers, incontinent, fierce, despisers of those that are good, traitors, heady, high-minded, lovers of pleasures more than lovers of God. These behaviors are a stark contrast to the compassion and empathy shown by Jesus, who wept with Mary and Martha after the death of Lazarus (John 11:35).

Relationship Mainly Effecting 2 Timothy 3:1-5 warns about the characteristics of people in the last days, describing them as lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boastful, proud, abusive, disobedient to their parents, ungrateful, unholy, without love, unforgiving, slanderous, without self-control, brutal, not lovers of the good, treacherous, rash, conceited, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power.

Accusing the Relationship 1 Timothy 6:5 warns against people who are depraved in mind and deprived of the truth, imagining that godliness is a means of gain

A PET PEEVE … THE VAST NUMBERS OF Infantile, self obsessed, usually into “false doctrine” ministers, who profess to be “over the rest’ “in the gates of their city” who read our mortal souls, never one respect, in fact who often avoid confronting,(Matt 18:15, meek Gal 6:1)  who even  block, intentionally cut off, avoid speaking” (all pure Christ like ordinary fellowship/community RESPECTFUL relating” but  gossip, tale bear, false witness, …. it’s  one more form of the 2 “Friendly Fire” (mentioned above..”to avoid” types on toxic, dysfunctional “untrustworthy” “unfair” self centric ministry.

This is what I name as We Centric Behavior “WE ARE WORLD” nobody else is important ,just US, our type of ministry “our 4 and no more”

PET PEEVE. A DIRE WARNING

BIG USE OF MINISTRY POP PSYCHOLOGY  

Minus any relationship, one-to-one “knowledge” confrontation to “confirm” what the appointed junior or senior office “ministry scanner” has “spied” deep inside the stranger, new visitor, woman of God visiting from another movement (black, white, or brown), person of color, or atypical human unknown, repeat visitor person, knowing, as this “professional strength ministry” is usually done secretly and safely from afar. (Without relationship, 1 John 1:7, which is very risky and prone to be off.)

Prophetic diagnosing is akin to Pharisee sin spying, WHY? For both are highly subjective (not a proven exact formula). Plus, the many volunteers can be immature, flawed, with an evil eye character and biased. Human persons do not want “immature, weak, inexperienced junior novices” reading their mail, as it is called, using their “gifts” to peer into the other person’s “soul” via presumption, witchcraft, word curses, bias, or false trendy doctrines. For this (and I take this opportunity to warn and remind those who do this) that all of this “inner peering” is super-elite, entitled, and objectifying.

The reason? It makes the “scanner over the other’s” dangerous area (mind, will, emotions, the soul) which can involve sly accusation and evil eye dark demonic unknowing “witchcraft,” which is precisely why I am writing, for I have been “targeted” by this since ministry celebrity began to get very popular and the many various trends and winds of American doctrine (true and false) came into grassroots pastors, chief apostles, and the prophets, making a plethora of accusing, guessing, weak superior anti-certain looks, types mainly inner vibes and ministry past around big evil gossip and false witness hearsay.

Let them rant and rave who read this, but they are bearing the sin, iniquity of occult, false religion, and bias-controlling elite doctrine (mostly theophostic Caucasian, which in the wrong sr ministry I liken to Dr Phil Pop Psychology, for no body relates, loves “THEY ONLY WANT TRY TO FIX YOU BECAUSE THEY NEED TO PROVE THAT THEY ARE GIFTED”… which can be warped, false, very foolish, and takes itself far too seriously yet will not submit to God’s whole First Church, not all-white counsel to relate (show respect, Jesus’ agape love, Paul’s EORR community).

DFW Spawned Humor due to this: 

Q. Who was the oppressed King Saul’s favorite pop psychologist?

A. Dr. Philistine

And all of this neo clever..yet trend of religious non contrite neophyte untrue doctrine.. it’s not bearing the fruit of 1 John 1:7, “walking in the light,” which reproduces the fair fruit of Christian relationships and whole community by this verse.

I JOHN 1:7 “If we walk in the light as He is in the light, then we have fellowship, one with another,

and the blood of Christs cleanses us from all sin.“

Note: “If” (meaning when, if) we (purposely choose to) walk in the light, as He (Jesus) is in the light (relating, being fair, respecting, not “targeting” and “only ‘reading'”), then we have fellowship one with another (note how the conditional option to “walk in the light” ties directly in with “relationships” – first part of this big insightful pure verse).

Logic: So “walking in the light” (when it’s done) reproduces “relationships,” “community,” and “mature, safe, Holy Spirit-directed ‘pure’ fellowship.” However, this is the second half of that big verse.

(When (IF)  we walk in the light, and it reproduces Jesus-like relationships, corporate ‘fellowship’), then the saving atonement, the safety factor (spiritually, naturally) of Christ’s shed blood and its supernatural wonder-working power cover our human frail body, mind, soul, spirit, emotions, families, possessions, any invisible “open spiritual doors” to demonic, evil. (Note: Submitting this as food to provoke thought and as “Selah,” not autocratic dogma).

The appointed “ministry office human” projecting “bias,” “fear,” “anti-woman,” anti-race” or vibe, ministry gossip, and stereotypes onto the naive, innocent “targeted” far-off person.

Furthermore, the practice of diagnosing and judging others without any relationship or understanding can be seen as a manifestation of a cult-like spirit. Cults often use fear, manipulation, and false accusations to control their members and maintain power over them.

In conclusion, it is essential for Christian ministers to prioritize compassion and empathy in their interactions with others. Instead of rushing to judgment or diagnosis, let us follow the example of Jesus, who wept with those who weep and mourned with those who mourn. By doing so, we can truly reflect the love and compassion of Christ in our ministries and communities.

Also In the fast-paced world of modern Christianity, ministers and church leaders often find themselves balancing the demands of ministry with the need for self-care and compassion. However, in their efforts to be efficient and effective, some may fall into practices that are not in line with the compassionate example set by Jesus Christ.

How, according to the Christian Bible, does gossip, speculation, and evil eye warnings against individuals, labeling them as witches, warlocks, hussies, Jezebels, or underminers, relate to modern practices of using pop psychology to judge people’s motives and wounds without personal interaction or understanding of their hardships? These practices, seen in some churches where staff aged 20-40 diagnose people without living through similar hardships themselves, often involve unsubstantiated accusations and lists of “prayer targets” without following Biblical protocols of confrontation and reconciliation (Matthew 18:15-16, Galatians 6:1, Isaiah 1:18).

1. How do these behaviors align with Paul’s warnings about the “perilous times” in the last days, described in 2 Timothy 3:1-5 and 1 Timothy 6:5?
2. How does this distant divination and diagnosis, lacking any relationship or verification, relate to a cult-like spirit?
3. Compare these practices to Jesus’ compassionate response to Lazarus’ death, where He wept alongside Lazarus’ sisters, demonstrating a deep empathy and understanding.
4. We each may conclude:, these modern practices prioritize efficiency and quick diagnosis over genuine compassion and empathy, possibly leading towards objectification and stereotyping, which contrasts sharply with Jesus’ example of mourning with those who mourn and weeping with those who weep. (JESUS related, even when He was weary from his journey. Also Christ not biased nor a put down artist, for even though He realized that Dead Lazarus would be raised the dead, and He saw his two female friends, Lazarus sisters, grieving, weeping ,surely crying or wailing (per Middle Eastern Culture) …Christ deeply respected and valued and had big compassion,  for each of those two weeping ministry females. He did not make light of their sorrow by dismissing them as “overly emotional time wasting little women” who blocked his next  office appointment.

MODERN MANTRA From Taveau  D’Arcy ‘s EORR CBU “Abiding Relationship Theology” 

NOW “MANTRA”

Jesus Christ came to teach us ‘how” to relate.