THE THYATIRA MEGA APPROACH

Suffer means to tolerate. It toys with the mind, emotions, and the leader’s true focus. It is distracting use of drama that creates unnecessary demonic emotional intrigue, drama, poor me taking sides, and backbiting. It is “unsubmitted” to the authority of God’s Whole Counsel, in the First Church Holy Bible (see that below).

So why does this leader tolerate it? The non-biased Apostle’s response is: “I don’t. Also, she will not suffer it for the sake of the Christian community!”

Note: I will now name this mostly into its own prosperity-seeking subgroup as “the Demas”(Paul’s meaning: the lovers of the earthly type things) in mean ministry, with perhaps an I Samuel Eli position thrown in on occasion. This is frontlines in the USA. Think king and numerous queen mighty slippery yet mega Jezebels discovered over 40 years. Yet all in a day’s work. It’s real life.

“Many times this eagle real prophet envisions the undue warfare national prophet Elijah endured being relentlessly outnumbered by the false demanding and manipulative, many accusing false.” So all this done so often by so many sweet Baby Jesus primarily non-respecting even opportunist confronters made me fine-tuned aware of this enormous type of relationship effecting Thing in the USA mostly (rigid white) RIGHTEOUS Big Body of Christ

Yet of course not ALL who resemble these busy kinds ARE like this nor do they do this. .BUT MANY DO

And I keep bumping into them. Ministry and the general Family

“It’s not one bit MY, OUR fault.” They each boo-hoo and keep their distance, maybe by avoiding, shunning, or keeping you at bay using text only, but will not permit you to meet with the person face to face to discuss, negotiate, and hear each person’s point of view rather than just one’s. Also, in modern days when everyone is so “right,” this style will refuse to WhatsApp, Viber, or video chat with the willing person just to keep their control. This is painful, unfair, biased, and self-oriented.

However, one does choose to want to work things out, yet one is not given their permission because they are “the big guys.”

However, that is how it is in modern society – ghosting, deleting, and canceling. Yet, their choice to minimize, dehumanize, and meanly vilify meek others is their own before God, so I just study them and make the best of it, even though it is accusing and big-shot (Demas Playtime!). Also, I know who they are.

It mostly occurs in fellowship groups, family resembling “clannish strife enjoying’ as these evidently relish in keeping it going. “grinding the axe’ “keeping the grist going” (as I have told myself) And it’s clusters who commiserate AGAINST the OTHER to whom they refuse to speak, too allow to any voice.

So put in a ministry perspective “The Imperfect Sane Eagles soar alone. Chickens are not designed to. Plus they remain in groups, eyes on the ground, searching for the next bit of grain”

But it wants to absorb all of your precious time and remove the joy of the Lord, which is your strength, and by now, I understand that. So, I redeem my time by studying it and them.

And all of this unloving relentless MIGHTY entitled Spiritual side fruit,  has made me an Expert in diagnosing it. As it is UNFAIR

Thus, my noting how these things are done frankly helps me to be patient and watch like a detective, which I am fairly good at because my mother raised me watching TV mysteries, mainly the old black and white Perry Mason reruns.

So, I just quietly observe and note who does what and why. Thus, I notice the following about them: their belief sets, their style, and their tactics to preserve self.

You, I, we need to be very  realistic, as we make them upset, but they refuse to negotiate or even respect you as if you are human like them. Long hard life lesson: “God’s very precious people are only about themselves!”

Religious patterns: Instead of abiding in mature fruit (James 3:17 fruit + Matthew 18:15), meek Galatians 6:1 to humbly work it out, they hide, cry in many people’s ears, but never directly talk with you. And you find out, sadly, that they only really care about themselves, mostly fine-tuned special evaluating “too right” choice selves.

For the Record: KIND, RELATIONSHIP VALUING, ALSO RESPECTING, PURE, FAIR LIFE FRUITS mentioned in the Bible verses noted above:

**James 3:17: “But the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated, full of mercy and good fruits, without partiality, and without hypocrisy.”

**Matthew 18:15-16 (privately, one to one, not in public, upfront)Matthew 18:15-16: “Moreover if thy brother shall trespass against thee, go and tell him his fault between thee and him alone: if he shall hear thee, thou hast gained thy brother. But if he will not hear thee, then take with thee one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three witnesses every word may be established.”

** Galatians 6:1 Brotherly face to face, in private, respectful, not accusing in public, being calmly upfront) Galatians 6:1: “Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.”**

For this Pastor TD is open, not needing to be in control but by now will not allow these non-servant leader types this person’s permission to be bad-mouthed, emotionally top dogged, he/she/they controlled.

TD is a problem solver, however, it requires both parties to at least “try.”

But no, they each are super saints and really want to win, which this person doesn’t, as this person just wants to focus to preserve relationship peace and have community, which these people do not need.

Also, to conserve my ministry time and precious strength to focus in order to finish God’s work, I do not like to play these kinds of mind games, yet these people want to.

So it bugs me, as in “I am for peace, but when I speak, they are for war” (Psalm 120:7).

The mega queen ministry, family kind of life ego, mostly turf guarding, even major type Jezebel, so that’s what I confront as the leader of this outpost according to Rev Church of Thyatira Lord’s Command.

“Do not tolerate that big undue demonic unduly “tug of war” (also convenient sly use of controlling false power, false authority, which is technically I Samuel 15:23 witchcraft and stubborn idolatry) assessed by myself as a whopper use of USA witchcraft Jezebel!”

So, I won’t accept, receive the big guilt trip and the pain, neither will this fine fair person  be played by Jezebel “it”…and shall REFUSE to  be controlled, manipulated, conned…and from now, warn the real leaders who (many of these) do this!

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